(Theme 1) Let's talk about 'Argument'

1.Do you think it is best to argue or walk away ? why ?

 

I think it's best to walk away. The more agrument we have, the more hurt we have. There are times when it neccesary to argue. In particular, this is the case where consensus is needed on social issues

 

2. what kind of personality traits do you like ?

 

I like people who are silent and trustworthy. My blood type is AB, so my personality is warmhearted and variable. The two personalities may be compatible

 

3. Do you think it's disrespectful to argue with your elders ?

 

I don't think so. It's possible to argue with each other despite age, unless it's a sensitive subject. Even older people should accept their wrong argument. The debate about objective fact is equal to all

 

4. How do you feel when someone disagree with everything you have to say ?

 

If someone denies everything, I'am angry and don't wanna talk. I won't wanna see him again. He must be a stubborn person who doesn't accept others

 

5. How do you grab someone's attention when you're making a point ? what can you do to lose it ?

 

I mainly make a point on the basis of objective data. Based on books and statistics for example. Then people have crebility in my arguments and pay their attention. If they can't concentrate well, it is good to hear my funny stories connected with my topic 

 

6. When was the last time you argued with someone ? what did you argue about ?

 

I usually have a casual argument with my wife about a small thing. The fundamental cause of that comes from differences in value. I am trying to come up with a solution and my wife just wanna be comforted. From now on, I'll just say " Yes, you're doing well "

 

7. How do you avoid arguments ?

 

First of all, I would like to change my position to that of a third party, that is, an objective position. Therefore, I don't speak of myself, but consider the other person's position. Then, naturally the dispute will be resolved. Silence also plays an important role in a quarrel

 

8. What kind of arguments do you dislike ?

 

I hate to argue about politics and religion. Religious in particular is a sensitive area. Religion has the same meaning as identity. It's diffcult to resolve the dispute over religious differences. I try not to argue

 

9. Do you usually change your mind easily ? Are you open to new idea ?

 

I am prepared to accept any opinion. I didn't have a closed mind. I love learning knowledge or thought that I didn't know. I have a lot of intellectual curiosity. If I went back to the past, I would be a scholar of the cheosun Dynasty