(theme-22, 12) Let's talk about relationships

1. How do you maintain a healthy balance between your personal life and your romantic relationship ?

First of all, I think that individual life and romatic relationships should be strictly separated and pursued independently. I should take my own time and pursue my own life. In the other hand, I should spend time with my partner separately. Romatic time with my partner is valuable when I have my own independent time and space. If I meddle in a personal life as a common life, the romatic relationship won't last long

 

2. What's the most romatic thing you've ever done for your partner or the most romatic thing someone has ever done for you ?

About a year ago, I gave my wife a surprise gift and moved her as a gift. I wrote a lettle of appreciation and bought flowers at a nearby flower shop and left them on the table. My wife was moved by the unexpected gift and told me that she was happy. I went to Pijung because I was tired physically and mentally and on the last day of my education, my wife welcomed me with a bunch of flowers. I also went to the night arboretum with my wife and we were ecsatic by the splendor of the light

 

3. Would you wait for your partner if they want to live overseas and stay there at least 1 year ?

I can't wait because of my personality. If the target is a wife, I wait. But if it's a lover, it's not easy. If we really like each other. we'll go abroad together. The waiting time is probably torture and I am personally impatient. It makes me have a tough day

 

4. Define cheating ( physical cheating vs emtional cheating )

Having physical sex or emotional love except a wife and lover is cheating. These days, it's a case of going through two legs. Especially emotional love doesn't go to sex, but it treat each other with feelings that they like. So, it goes from emotional cheating to physical cheating. Personally there are cases where only one companion of an animal is dating until the dealth, but humans don't fall under this category

 

5. Describe your ideal partner

My ideal partner is someone I can talk to while sharing my humanities knowledge first. I need to realize myself and my partner should symphasize with me in a useful conversation. It's good if my partner has a warm heart and laugh a lot. In conclusion, my ideal type is a woman who is intelligent and makes me feel comfortable

 

6. If you could go on a romantic vacation anywhere in the world, where would you go ?

I went to Hawaii for honeymoon with my wife. My wife said that she misses beautiful memories of Hawaii and wants to live in Hawaii for a month when I retire. Hawaii is full of ecstatic sea views and endless horizons. I want to visit Hawaii with my wife in the next 4 years and enjoy the wonderful scenery of my honeymoon

 

7. If you could have any celerity as your Valentine. who would it be ?

If I were to pick a celebrity for my Valentine, I would like to select a female colleage who is a senior judge college, I felt like she was my friend, but I was in middle aged, she looked great at the meeting. she is small in size, but she is attractive in her character and robustness as a woman. I'll call and meet her and we talk about our college days

 

8. How do you handle conflict in your relationship ?

It's not easy to resolve the conflict with my wife. First of all, in order to resolve the conflict, I keep silent for a while and don't speak. I try to objectify each other in subjective thoughts and emotions. Rather than pointing out each other's mistakes, we presents a future-oriented opinion tha we should try to compromise our opinion in the future. In conclusion, we design a direction to promote future development rather than past criticism

 

9. What's your fovorite part of your partner ?

The best part of my wife is that she has a strong spirit of sacrifice. And sometimes she argue with me because she is too considerate of others. Therefore, she once thought of a nun to suit her personality. She's mentally strong, so she's weak but she seems to hold out with her mental strenght. I admire my wife for all the above

 

10. If you could go back in time and give your younger self one piece of relationship advice, what would it be ?

Relationships are like hedgehogs, so if we're too close, we'll get stabbed and if we're too far, we'll become estanged. so we need a proper distance. If we get too close, we often treat each other carelessly. so we say a lot of hurtful things to each other. What I value more is the fact that others is different and changed according to social environment. So we have to be generous and understand it in an inclusive