(theme-15, 4) Let's talk about Happiness

1. What makes you happy ?

I feel happy when I discuss various values for the world with young people. Now Qualcomm discuss various topics in English. Young people make fresh agruments and I learn something new. I always bought books from time to time to write new contents for my blog. Buying a few books is another happiness and a thirsty for knowledge

 

2. Do you think that happiness lies within you ? or does it depend upon other people and external things ?

I think that joy comes from the fifty-fifty influence. I think the influence of others will be great first. Their recognition provides a cause for joy and I need a heart to appreciate it in me. Therefore, I don't think I can have joy in one way

 

3. Share your happiest memories

It was more than a year since I blogged and the cumulative number of view exceeded 100,000. My family went to an Italian restaurant in Baegun Lake and had a steak lunch and took pictures in a pleasant conversation. It is a day that gives me infinite joy and become a celebration

 

4. What are the three most important things for you to be happy ?

It seems to me that it's the most important for others to acknowledge me. And I have to be satisfied with everything and be thankful. Finally, it is necessary to think and understand generously that humans are different and always change depending on the environment. Happiness comes from the heart, not from material

 

5. What make you unhappy ?

It's when I feel wrong because I think it's unfair to me. For example, seven days ago, my boss added work to me. The reason for adding work is similar to the current work, so it should be done. Of course, he did it because he said it was right, but I felt that there was a lot of it for me in the whole department. It's hard to judge a person accurately because he speaks from his own point of view

 

6. How can you become happy again when you are sad or feeling bad ?

When I'm in a bad mood, I look for something pleasant first. When I feel bad, the first thing I wanna do is buy clothes. I like to decorate myself. And I eat delicious food. Lastly I go to the bookstore to buy the book I wanna read

 

7. Do you know term called blessing in disguise ? Did it make you happy ?

Of course it made me happy. It can be seen that joy is doubled in difficulties. Furthermore, if you suddenly turn into luck in difficulties. you will have unexpected joy. So no one knows how life will change. Even if you fail in life, don't do discouraged and if you do it consistently, you cna taste the fruit of success at some point

 

8. People have different ideas about happiness. There are people who say that happiness comes from simple things like eating good food, and others say happiness is the result of painful efforts after a long time. Which do you agree more with ?

Happiness can be large even after hard work, and happiness from triviality is calm happiness. Big happiness is important, but it seems that happiness that flows quietly in my mind is more important. Calm happiness comes from appreciation for trivial things. Appreciation is also possible only when love is established in the heart

 

9. Have you tried to make others feel happy ? How did it go ?

It's important for me to read others' mind first. So don't do what they think they won't like and do what they like. So if you don't read others' mind properly, you can't make that judgement. In the past, I was not good at this, but now I think I can understand the feelings of my acquaintances

 

10. Which one is happier for you ? Being single vs Being couple

I think couples are happier than singles. A single can be thought of as being free and happy with no interference from anyone. Couples can complement each other and make love and rely on each other. In conclusion, If you think of interference as love and freedom as reliance, a couple can be better. Two is better than one