(theme-33, 28) Let's talk about dating

1. First, what is dating ? Do we call drinking alcohol with other gender late at night "dating" ?

When it comes to dating, we meet because we wanna make a girlfriend. We usually meet at coffee shops and restaurants. While eating tea or food, we talk about each other's interest or latest gossip and decide whether we like each other. If we like each other, we watch movies or take a walk in the park to share memories. Anyway when I was young, I used to drink until late. In my opinion Dating is also a game of finding a person who has a likable face, similar value and hobbies

 

2. What is a true meaning for " I don't see her/his appearance" ?

Perhaps it is difficult to believe this 100 percent. It seem that not looking at appearance is based on distrust of appearance. We'll think that a good-looking person can cheat on a girlfriend or abandon her. Appearance is thought to be the most important factor in dating

 

3. Describe the character of the person you would like to date 

I think a charater similar to my personality would be good. First of all I like a warm-hearted personality. She is good at controlling her opinion and matching with others, and it's good to have a lot of laughter and brightness. My ideal is to have a girlfriend who can have fun talking with various knowledge

 

4. Do you believe in love at first sight ?

I can have a formal love for her appearance at first sight. It takes a conversation to go to real love. There are times when they fall in love at first sight and become distant because their thoughts and values are different. Personally the first sight is important but I think the most important thing is personality and values.

 

5. How would you act if you don't like your partner on a blind date ?

When I was young and I didn't like the other person, I didn't talk much, so she recognize that I didn't like her. All this time, I don't make future appointment while talking about various things to be polite. I think appearance should be somewhat up to one's own standards, so that one can be likable in conversation

 

6. What do you do when you like your parner on a blind date ?

I'll ask my date what she wants to do. So if there's anything special, she want to do, I'll follow it. But if there is nothing special, I'll first chose to be able to relate to each other. Then, we'll watch a movie or a play that we'll like each other. We'll have a romantic conversation over coffee or dinner with the contents of a movie or a play

 

7. Do you have tip to make someone to be your lover ? Share your know-hows

There's no royal road in a relation, but it would be good to just understand the other people's heart and have a  pleasant conversation. The lovers build beautiful memories and give each other trust. We should value love knowing that trust between lovers will only build up if it last long, but distrust will be instantaneous

 

8. Did you ever arrange a blind date ?

When I was a freshman in college, I remember introducing a girlfriend to my major friend. I know that my majoy friend fell in love with the girl because he liked her. The girl used to dress modestly before she was in love, but after knowing my friend, her clothes become fancy. And she seemed to be having fun by arranging a group blind date with my majoy other firends

 

9. Have you ever had a crush on someone ?

I think I had passionate love twice. My first love was when I went up to Naejangsan Mountain with my friend in college. She is from Daejeon, and we bloomed in cheonan. Second, when I went to Samsung company, I went on a trip abroad, and she did it as a guide. we became fond of each other, so we thoght about marrigae, but because the family is chrisian, there is opposition 

 

10. Have you ever ended up point when you were in 썸 ?

It was when I was in college. When I entered cafe, a woman about the age of my older sister was having the serving I asted the elder girl for a dater at a glance, but she refused. In the end, I was the only one who liked her but she went somewhere else, so it ended while flirting